I felt angry and upset most of the time, people walked on eggshells around me, and I couldn’t establish new friendships, or even maintain old ones. I often felt blamed, being told everything was my fault, which kept me feeling low and trapped. Despite having a very successful career, I had no sense of self or self-confidence. I kept seeing examples of others whom I aspired to be like, and I wondered how ‘that’ was possible.
As a result of being in the F.I.T. LIFE program, I know now that my head is what kept me trapped. I kept myself masked to control how others saw me so I could stay “safe” and appear good enough in other people’s eyes. But because I couldn’t recognize myself, no one else could either. I have now met so many amazing women. Seeing myself clearly has allowed me to be seen by others which has enabled me to be connected with high-vibe, like-minded people.
Although I was afraid to join the community initially, this has now become my go-to. I now know what true peace, joy, and contentment is for the first time in my life! I thought I knew what it was, but it turns out I just got pretty good at being ok with feeling “good enough” and guessed “This must be it”. Instead of fleeting moments, a day or a week here and there of feeling good enough, I’m now tallying up the months of truly feeling good!”






